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Quoting joliecoeur:
I lived 17 years with a Canadian military always gone on duty, in Golan Height 6 months during the Gulf war, When he came back I amost didn't recognised him! 3 monts on Nato , 5 years in UK for the Submarines project... Where ever you can follow him do so, he will need you there! more than mommy!!!! Bring your kids a great experience ! When Not possible write a lot, e-mails, letters, post cards, text, phone calls specially at night before going to bed to wish him good night or good morning, not during his working hours! Try to avoid to tell him or her bad news or complains, show you can handle things ok sure it be easier if he was there with you! but he don't need other worries on top of it! Your life is hard his is worse! Specially in a war zone, show him you love him all the time, so many ways to do so! little things do more than nothing, don't nagg him, supporte him with kind words, be sincere of course! share some songs!!! dedicate right meanifull one... The days will sims less long... Comunications nothing is better that that! The mistake to try to avoid is when he has been gone for so long , and you got used to be alone independante, you may feel like a stranger is coming home! try to prepare yourself to accept him as he comes! Dont give him cold showlder because you have to get used to him again, It's hard I know for them they waited a long time to be with you, they want you right away s want him back as much that reunion be always better and unforgatable! He is your man, and show him how much you mist him, concentrate lots of time to capture the spark! Because soon enought he is gone again!!! And emptiness can take over!!! Don't let negative vibrations or influencial friends trying to get you away from him!!!! They have a goal, another man may try to use that to seduce you same with women, and another man may invent stories to take your man away from you! Specialy if you have some thing good! It's lot of work worth it to keep alive! Go meet him for a Holiday where he is, this way when you gone he still see you there! Best of luck
I lived 17 years with a Canadian military always gone on duty, in Golan Height 6 months during the Gulf war, When he came back I amost didn't recognised him! 3 monts on Nato , 5 years in UK for the Submarines project... Where ever you can follow him do so, he will need you there! more than mommy!!!! Bring your kids a great experience ! When Not possible write a lot, e-mails, letters, post cards, text, phone calls specially at night before going to bed to wish him good night or good morning, not during his working hours! Try to avoid to tell him or her bad news or complains, show you can handle things ok sure it be easier if he was there with you! but he don't need other worries on top of it! Your life is hard his is worse! Specially in a war zone, show him you love him all the time, so many ways to do so! little things do more than nothing, don't nagg him, supporte him with kind words, be sincere of course! share some songs!!! dedicate right meanifull one... The days will sims less long... Comunications nothing is better that that! The mistake to try to avoid is when he has been gone for so long , and you got used to be alone independante, you may feel like a stranger is coming home! try to prepare yourself to accept him as he comes! Dont give him cold showlder because you have to get used to him again, It's hard I know for them they waited a long time to be with you, they want you right away s want him back as much that reunion be always better and unforgatable! He is your man, and show him how much you mist him, concentrate lots of time to capture the spark! Because soon enought he is gone again!!! And emptiness can take over!!! Don't let negative vibrations or influencial friends trying to get you away from him!!!! They have a goal, another man may try to use that to seduce you same with women, and another man may invent stories to take your man away from you! Specialy if you have some thing good! It's lot of work worth it to keep alive! Go meet him for a Holiday where he is, this way when you gone he still see you there! Best of luck
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